DEAR MASSI, I am seeing this guy but he went and told his parents that I want to marry him. I've only known him for three months and the conversation never even came up between us. His parents came round to my house recently and I was just shocked. I don't want to get married yet and don't know what to do. Why would he do this? My parents were shocked at first but are really happy now and are making plans because they like the family! LP Blackburn

MASSI SAYS, Have you actually spoken to this man and asked him why he did this? If you dont want to get married just say so! You can just say no. Tell your parents the truth and tell ask what has happened. Im sure they will understand. The longer you leave it the worse it will get...