DEAR Massi, In the Asian Image May issue there was a letter about a man who was very low on confidence.

Despite having a good job, being reasonably good looking (that's what he said) and being responsible he still lost out to losers (his words).

I just want to say to him it women don't necessarily want a man who is financially well off all the time. Most of us just want someone special. Personality matters more you know.

However, he shouldn't feel so bad about things and there is bound to be many women out there who would snap him up straight away.

If he thinks by being well off and having a good car us women should be falling at his feet then he's got another thing coming. I know this might get his confidence down further but I think it has to be said.

I just think there is too much emphasis on being the right height, the same cast and the right income. So people have to aim to be these when they look for a partner.

Genie

Blackburn