A STRANGE thing happened last Saturday. Both the winning and losing managers hailed my performance as the best so far this season.
Despite the fact that they probably say the same thing every week I was nevertheless pleased to receive such lavish praise.
As human beings (most of us anyway) we do enjoy applause and respond accordingly. Conversely we do not enjoy, and are occasionally hurt, by criticism. We are aware however, that criticism comes very much with the uniform and as such we develop thick skins and selective deafness.
Generally we are prepared to accept advice provided it is constructive. We are often assessed by an observer or delegate who will highlight strengths and suggest weaker areas of performance in order to improve our overall standards. Similarly, I have sat and discussed incidents with managers and club officials after the game. These have been calm and constructive discussions in either dressing room or bar. Whilst we do not always reach a consensus, we have heard each other's viewpoint and department amicably.
And then there is the criticism we are not prepared to tolerate. Constant moaning from the number eight chasing you round the field for 90 minutes. The manager hurling abuse from the dugout interspersed with various expletives. Worst of all any player, official or spectator with a limited knowledge of the Laws offering negative and spurious comments.
No longer should we have to apologise for dismissing a keeper for a professional foul. We have no choice. Similarly we are mandated to send off players who injure opponents with two-footed challenges. Why criticise us for it when we have no choice? Why keep whingeing about using common sense in areas where we have no discretion?
By all means criticise referees. But firstly do it constructively. Secondly make sure you are correct in Law. Thirdly and best of all, buy a kit and go and try it for yourself!
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