I HAVE been seeing this girl for two years and I want to marry her but I don't think her parents understand what kind of person I am.

They found out and automatically thought I was same as all the other guys. They want to keep us apart and I have been threatened by her brothers on numerous occasions. I am unhappy and whenever I see her she is always in tears. What can I do?

HNK

Burnley

MASSI SAYS,

Parents are always going to be careful when it comes to marrying their daughter off. It is something only a parent would understand. But it seems parents should also listen to the wishes of their children sometimes.

In your case I suggest you try to make try and listen to remain as calm as possible. Patience is a great virtue. And you must understand the woman usually has to sacrifice so much more whne her family doesn't agree to the marriage. So try not to pressurise her in any way.