I HAVE three grave plots in the cemetery at Pleasington, Blackburn, one of which was first opened 50 years ago.

At that time we were issued with a set of rules concerning care of the plot. It was clearly stated that no ornament other than a headstone was to be placed thereon and no edging stones.

Over the years, I have seen those rules relaxed to the extent that what was planned as a lawned and tidy area has now become what I can only describe as 'tatty.' Visitors from out of town are shocked when they see it.

I cannot begin to know the pain that those who have lost a child must feel. However, I feel that placing windmills, toys, etc., on graves is not the way to assuage that grief.

Far better to have a special place around the home where that child had happy days than in a cold plot far from those who loved them, where those things can be damaged or stolen.

I know that the council would like to enforce the original rules and it would be far easier to maintain the cemetery were they able to do so.

The situation is going worse. The council must step in to stop the further deterioration. No doubt there will be uproar, but they must grasp the nettle.

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