When I look around me, I see women shouting from the rooftops asking for equality.

I don't deny them their inalienable rights but when I see the Asian community I wonder whether things have been taken too far.

The majority of women in the Asian community are making all the major decisions in their respective households and the men are just bystanders.

Look around, who decides whom you will marry? Who decides what you will have for dinner? Who decides with whom your family integrates?

So, who is running the show and who is playing second fiddle? Most men just succumb to the constant nagging and all the pettiness the women usually instigate and exacerbate within families.

Hence, many men walk with their heads bowed. What always seems to baffle me, is when I see many blokes who are devout Muslims frequenting the mosques and yet on the other hand their wife's adhere very little to Islamic protocols.

How many families are being torn apart due to the inability of the men to stand up to the women.

Your typical Asian woman doesn't get on with her husbands family and spends most of her life trying to brainwash the children in despising their fathers family and adoring their mothers side of the family. Some of you might say, this is hogwash, but just look at the number of families who have been torn apart by women feuding, this is only self-evident.

I am sure many female readers will think I am one of those people who has experienced all the above, but I can assure you that I have not. This is only my observation.

Annoymous